While counseling with my priesthood leader, he pointed out a message from President Dieter F. Uchtdorf in the Sunday session of the April 2010 General Conference that he hoped all of the stake’s Primary leaders and teachers would take to heart. It discusses the need for us to not judge, but love every child. It is easy to be put off by the behavior, dress, language, or cleanliness of a child, but we need to look past those and love that child as the Savior does. We may be the only source of love and connection with gospel teachings that child may have during the week. Here is part of the message from President Uchtdorf:
“I hope that we welcome and love all of God’s children, including those who might dress, look, speak, or just do things differently. It is not good to make others feel as though they are deficient. Let us lift those around us. Let us extend a welcoming hand. Let us bestow upon our brothers and sisters in the Church a special measure of humanity, compassion, and charity so that they feel, at long last, they have finally found home.
When we are tempted to judge, let us think of the Savior, who “loveth the world, even that he layeth down his own life that he may draw all men unto him. . . . “[And] he saith: Come unto me all ye ends of the earth, . . . [for] all men are privileged the one like unto the other, and none are forbidden.” 2 Ne 26:24-25, 28, emphasis added. . . Christ knows how to minister to others perfectly. When the Savior stretches out His hands, those He touches are uplifted and become greater, stronger, and better people as a result.
If we are His hands, should we not do the same?”
President Uchtdorf continues with this promise:
“As we extend our hands and hearts toward others in Christlike love, something wonderful happens to us. Our own spirits become healed, more refined, and stronger. We become happier, more peaceful, and more receptive to the whisperings of the Holy Spirit.” Dieter F. Uchtdorf, “‘You Are My Hands’,” Ensign, May 2010, 68–70, 75